Can the My Schedule Calendar Sharing be set to not overlay the two calendars?
This is not currently possible. The Calendar Sharing always creates a combined Overlay view where the shared calendar has that user's name displayed at the top of the user calendar entries. When viewing the Admin User's calendar, it appears as shown:
CRM Help Documentation: My Schedule Overview
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